Turkish Drama in Pakistan

As dramas are the source to have utilize the spare time but nowadays they had become the main issue that they has destroyed our an Islamic society. I’ve recently seen an increase in the attention being paid by TV stations and the Muslims to series and movies that originate from Turkey and India. I mean these dramas the Muslim society is becoming more and more ‘European’ day by day.

These dramas are nothing but teaching of conspiracies, manoeuvrings of domestic matters, inspiring youths and Muslims towards useless glamour and negatively affecting the society. One can learn nothing but would lose a lot. They use expensive clothes, artificial jewellery fake n artificial dialogues, n artificial acting as well. These dramas create a sense of inferiority complex to those who are unable to wear expensive wardrobes and etc. which really create a class difference which is very harmful for a society. Without any story n script a huge amount of recordings with glamour and commercialism. The worst part of these soaps is viewers start shedding tears for the characters, spoiling their health and it leads to depression. People relate to these soaps to such an extent that they get bored of living a normal life. Watching intense emotions on daily soaps leaves a negative impact on one’s mind. We should take care of our mental health too.

Several values were contradicting to the Arab values and traditions such as alcohol use, sex, and abortion that were openly discussed in these shows. I believe that too much attention to one particular type of serial, the romantic drama, which includes the first and most famous ones that caused such a stir. We need to get beyond what the press, especially in the West, has focused on with regard to the impact of these Turkish productions. They badly effect on an Islamic society and challenging their cultural and moral values by bringing Muslims away from their religion and customs. Turkish dramas and movies has rapidly started corrupting Muslims and their way of thinking. We should think about t and stop watching these kinds of stuff. I hope you might think and react like an individual. Spread awareness. 🙂

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Scholars of Islam

There is no greater love than the love one feels for Allah subhanahu wa ta’ala and whoever has not experienced this love does not know what true love is.

Islam is the best among all religions. It is the reason of love, care, success and prosperity in Islamic society. This religion is transmitted from Scholar to the ones who learn under them and they transmit it to others. Scholars’ obedience is tied to their commitment of defending the truth. The more they move away from speaking the truth, the more animosity is geared towards them. This is the religious true scale that confirmed in writing and by the actions of previous generations because scholars are prone to making mistakes, a religious style was adopted to clarify these mistakes.  Scholars are the scholars of the people of Hadeeth (the Salafees) As they are the ones who follow the knowledge transmitted by the companions of the Prophet (salallahu alaihi wa  sallam) and follow their madhab and methodology. They teach you the correct about Islam.

Nowadays, people have started disrespecting Islamic scholars and used to say bad about them which are not good at all. If in a group anyone started to talk bad about Islamic scholars so gradually the whole group courage him and all used to talk speak bad about them they forget that they are our teacher. Islam gives us the teaching of respecting elders and scholars.

Speaking about your sin, disrespecting anyone and flaunting it openly in front of your friends are haram and is a major sin. It is one of the ways of spreading immorality among the Muslims, encouraging evil and tempting others to do similar things. It also means that one does not take sin seriously and regards it as insignificant, and that the sinner is damaging his own reputation and exposing his honor to the slander of others. Islam seeks to put people off from doing such things in the strongest possible terms, as in the following hadeeth: 
“Abu Hurayrah said: I heard the Messenger of Allah (saws) say: “All of my ummah will be forgiven except those who sin openly. It is a part of sinning openly when a man does something at night, then the following morning when Allah has concealed his sin, he says, ‘O So and so, I did such and such last night,’ when all night his Lord has concealed him and the next morning he uncovers what Allah had concealed.” (Bukhari & Muslim)Abu Hurayrah said: I heard the Messenger of Allaah (saws) say: “All of my ummah will be forgiven except those who sin openly. It is a part of sinning openly when a man does something at night, then the following morning when Allaah has concealed his sin, he says, ‘O So and so, I did such and such last night,’ when all night his Lord has concealed him and the next morning he uncovers what Allaah had concealed.” (Bukhari & Muslim)Abu Hurayrah said: I heard the Messenger of Allaah (saws) say: “All of my ummah will be forgiven except those who sin openly. It is a part of sinning openly when a man does something at night, then the following morning when Allaah has concealed his sin, he says, ‘O So and so, I did such and such last night,’ when all night his Lord has concealed him and the next morning he uncovers what Allaah had concealed.” (Bukhari & Muslim)

So brothers and sisters in Islam, it has to be clear that our relationship with our leaders and scholars must be based on Islam. We must also be more stem on our scholars and be more careful in accepting anything and everything they tell us. We should get the evidence and question them when needed, until the proof is clear. We must let it be understood that our loyalty is to Allah! Our allegiance is to Allah!! Our purpose for living is to please Allah and Allah only!! Our striving, our living and our dying are only for Allah!

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Capital Punishment

Every living entity has to die one day or another but the death is wished to be natural like the birth. Capital punishment has been part of the human society ever since the law was established. However, the first historically recorded capital punishment occurred in 16th Century BC Egypt where the wrongdoer, a member of nobility, was accused of magic, and ordered to take his own life. During this period, non-nobility was usually killed with an axe (The death penalty). Movements have been made for and against death penalty considering the benefits and detriments it causes and various studies have been done on the issue by means of different religious outlook. This essay is an attempt to draw attention in view of its psychological and sociological perspective.

 

In 1612, Virginia Governor Sir Thomas Dale enacted the Divine, Moral and Martial Laws, which provided the death penalty for even minor offenses such as stealing grapes, killing chickens, and trading with Indians (DPIC). Though in 18th Century, the king of Babylon, Hammurabi was the first person who established death penalty laws and referred 25 crimes for capital punishment. Till today, numerous crimes among which murder and treason are top of the list are counted capital, severe enough to result methodical death of the criminal.

 

The idea of punishment is always linked with wrong doing. People are being punished for their actions which don’t support their respective unit’s norm. The word capital gives an impact of something big and important and punishment is the reaction given by the authority to the criminal, with an aim to warn others not to commit the crime, at the same time.

 

Henry Thomas Buckle once said “Society prepares the crime, the criminal commits it”. Thus criminal’s bond with the society is deep and unbreakable. Therefore, every action taken by the judge of a court affects the society, of which both the judge and the convict are part. Though, a criminal commits the crime individually but leaves an impact on the society. Similarly, his punishment results both psychological and sociological effects.

 

Humans can never be 100 percent accurate in their decision and judgments and because of this fact every offender leaves his imprint in the track of felony. A criminal plans the strategy to commit a crime, usually; and is supposed to have a reason behind. Death is something sane people are usually afraid of. A delinquent commits crime either for his survival or to retaliate; however there are other crooks as well who commit felony to satisfy their id; the most common example of such fellows is serial killers. Sigmund Freud’s structural model of human psyche enlightens the leading function of a convict’s mind. An offender following id i.e. a serial killer is unlikely to fear execution. Sentencing such criminals to death doesn’t really affect them or the public but turns out to be beneficial for the welfare of a society.

 

A penalty’s main purpose is to impart fear of conviction among convicts. Keeping this ultimate intention in mind sentencing must have decreased the rate of crime but the statistical offense rates worldwide reveal the reverse. The most powerful country- US- which has made capital punishment a legally painful killing of convict in the world has the highest crime rate (Source Internet). Though US had introduced various methods to make an executed criminal’s death vile but seem to have failed to produce the dread among public. One possible reason of this failure is that the death penalty is given behind closed doors. If people get a personal sight of the capital suffering it is likely that the terror will be intense.

 

Every society has its own cultural values. Many people believe that level of legal punishments reflects the degree of tolerance in a community. “A society that responds to crime with capital punishment is an unforgiving society. Its use of such a degrading punishment says something about its commitment— or lack of commitment—to human dignity. It also reflects either arrogance on the part of the society—based on a belief that its institutions infallible—or indifference—a belief that the people affected by its decisions to kill are of so little worth that it does not matter if they are mistakenly executed”(Stephen). Humanists throughout the world take capital punishment as a cruel decision and condemn it. According to them, decision of one’s life and death cannot be given to another human because of his status. Whereas there are people who support capital punishment because of its deterring affect that saves the lives of innocent persons by discouraging potential murderers. They believe it prevents murderers from killing again. Their argument against a life imprisonment without parole (the early prison release of an offender) is that it leaves prison guards and other prisoners at risk as there is a doubt of escape. Only a capital sentence can free the society of their fears of serious murderers. For such supporters punishment for an offense is obligatory.

 

Capital punishment wipes out criminals and is always offensive either for the criminals or for the philanthropists. If it is effective enough to produce expected results and achieve its purpose then it must be consider a possible way to solve a capital issue; however eliminating criminals must not be the aim but eradicating crimes
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Teen Age and sexual relationships

 

Recently I have seen a video on face book which shows that’s it’s not save for girls to marry before the age of 18.According to the video it’s not safe for their health if they marry at the age of 15-16.

               But,  what about the relationship at the age of 15-16? Is it safe for girls to have relationship at such young age?

Teenager’s relationships are very common in the west. With the wide use of internet the teenager’s issue of sex and love has been increased .They get into dating and relationship at a very young age.

In any teenager relationship the girls suffers badly although the boys are also affected but its puts a great negative marks on girls. The young girls are biologically immature. Their minds are not that much strong to distinguish between right and wrong. They feel affection for others due to their hormones push and sexual needs. So, at this stage they feel strong affection for the opposite gender and do such mistake that causes trouble for them in their future life.

At the age of 15-16 the young girls are very possessive about their partners, they get easily hurt. They fall into depression after break up. They depend a lot upon their partners for their happiness they seem to in circle their relationship around them .They often ignore their family, friends, studies and many other healthy aspects of life which often cause severe problems for them.

         It has been estimated that 70% of the pregnant teen drop out of the school and half of them have jobs. Why is this happening? What happened to the teens? Why they are becoming so irresponsible?  That’s because they have been given too much freedom. They don’t have any  restriction and limits on them they are not answer able to any one not even to their parents and it is well said that access of very thing is bad.

      Teens in the west use their freedom in a very wrong way. They have any easy access to internet on which they saw different idiotic and vulgar stuff pornographic videos and pictures are easily available to them. There are certain sites which educate them about physical relationship like sex and then what are we going to aspect from them? To be civilized, cultured, and well behaved personalities.

               Of course they can’t remain silent after seeing all of this .We are leading a hoarse towards water and then what we aspect from him not to drink it? Most of the teens do sex for experience. They want to feel the thing they have seen and this is their age requirement. And once they practice it they can’t stop them self from doing it again as sins has a great attraction in it.

            Now is this save for a girl to get into relationship and become pregnant at the age of 15-16?  Not even she is married. She is alone responsible for her condition because mostly their partners left them and run away? Is this condition better than being married at early age? Isn’t their health in risk now?

            Of course they are at greater risk now. They are alone and had a great responsibility on them. Even their parents and family leave them alone they had to suffer financial problems, low self-esteem and many other problems.

               While if they are married their husband can’t leave them alone and run away. Their family supports them she can have moral support and love of her husband and friends to pass through all the stages. She doesn’t have to feel regret or any financial problem.

          Isn’t getting marriage at early age is better than being in a relation?

           Teenager relationship is also a major source of spreading diseases like Cancers, AIDS, and SARPS. The HIV infections are also common among youngsters. According to CDC (the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention) half of the African American between the ages of 13 to 24 is affected by HIV. Any kind of UN protected physical relationship leads towards AIDS. According to the kids health website one third of the HIV cases are the result of UN protected sex.

 That is the reason why Islam is so against Zina (adultery, unlawful sexual relationships) it has been clearly mention in Hadees that when our holy prophet is on the journey to heaven he saw many punishment including adultery. It says

                          “So we went on, and came to something like a tan door (a kind of oven, lined with clay, usually used for baking bread). – I think the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said, in that oven there was much noise and voices. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) added: – We looked into it and saw naked men and women. A flame of fire was reaching them from underneath, and when it reached them, they cried out loudly. I asked them, ‘Who are these?’ … The naked men and women whom you saw in a structure that resembled an oven are the adulterers and adulteresses.”

                All of the above prove that it’s not good for teenagers to get into relationship at such young age. But there are some primary motives needs or desires that needs to fulfill.

                In the west the concept of family system is almost over. A very few people live in a family and knows its importance. Mostly couples lives together for many years without marriage. They think marriage is not necessary. Living together without marriage save them from responsibilities, expenditure, being parents and family. They can separate without any bad feeling on both sides.

They even had kids which they can leave in a charity center or orphaned center if they think it’s UN wanted. Mostly raised by the women when their boyfriend leaves them.

                    But is this a humanity to leave your children like this ? What is the difference between animals and human then?

They behave like animals that just fulfill their needs and move away. Halal (legal) relationships differentiate us from animals. Can they imagine what life they are providing to the child who they have left in charity center? Can they imagine about their feelings when the child opens his\her eyes and thought of itself as UN wanted? Being unwanted is the world worst pain.

That’s the reason Islam has given utmost importance to marriage. There is no place of celibacy in ISLAM the prophet (S.A.W) has said in a Hadees

                        “There is no celibacy in Islam”.

So getting marriage is a religious duty in Islam. The prophet (S.A.W) used to said that when your children reach to the age of adulthood marry them. He also said

     “O youth, whoever of you is able to marry, let him marry, for it prevents forbidden stares or lapsing in adultery. And if he cannot marry, let him observe fasting, for it is a shield against evil”.

              Islam also give a lot of importance to the re marriage of widows and divorcee because it knows that by ignoring your primary needs the Satan (devil) will lead you towards sins.

 These are the objectives of sex mentioned by Allah in the verse that reads:

“And among His signs is that He created for you mates from among yourselves, that you may dwell with them in tranquility, and He has put love and mercy between you. Indeed, in this are signs for those who reflect.” (Ar-Rum 30: 21)

      So getting married before the age of 18 is not that much big issue if we follow Islamic instructions.  Islam has proved this through the marriage of Hazrat Aisha and Holy Prophet (S.A.W). She was nine years old when she got married. She was Holy prophet most beloved wife and one of the most educated and poises women in the Muslim ummah.

                      If we follow Islamic instruction we can save our society from many evil. We can save our children from being unwanted, save our societies from diseases like cancer, HIV etc. We can save our females from being misuse.

        As Islam is a complete code of life it contains instructions related to every field of life so proud to be a Muslim and try to follow Islamic instructions.

 

 

 

 

 

 

   

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Co-Education System

Education plays a vital role in the development of a country. It is considered as a back bone in the development of a country. Education will lead us towards social and economic success. Unfortunately Pakistan is among those countries whose education is on its dead bed. The government is only spending 2.3% of its budget on education.

Manually two types of educational system exits in Pakistan one is the private sector and second is the government sector. Private sector contains coeducation while the government sector is based on single sex education policy.

Coeducation system is very common in the western countries.             Unfortunately we follow western tradition blindly. We consider ourselves modern and liberal by following western traditions. Coeducation had been introduced in the world in 19th century. In 1917 it was dominant education system in the Soviet Union. According to Cornelius Riordan

“By the end of the nineteenth century, coeducation was all but universal in American elementary and secondary public schools” (see Kolas nick, 1969; Bureau of Education, 1883; Butler, 1910; Riordan, 1990)

At the end of the 20th century it is spread almost all over the world.

Coeducation has its own Pons and cons. There are a few advantages but a lot of disadvantages. Well studying in coeducation system builds confidence. It reduces shyness and hesitation. It helps us to integrate in the society and communicates in the world easily. But while studying in coeducation also produce problem for us .It’s a natural law that opposite poles attract each other so does the opposite genders. Feeling of affection for someone and teenagers crushes are commonly observed. One of severe disadvantage is sexual harassment and molestation which is very high in coeducation. Many people especially Muslim things used to think that coeducation is against their culture.

Pakistan lack government universities and public universities are all co educated. These universities have a lot of problem in them. Although these universities provide education but the quality of character building is quite low.

The students of these universities do not abide the rule and regulation of their universities due to lack of strictness. The class ‘bunking’ (leaving class without permission) trend is very common among students. They do this for fun. Mostly in morning the washrooms are crowded. The girls waste their time there in makeup. They wear expensive jewelry and cloths to prominent their body features like they come there for modeling instead of study. The boys used to wear funky shirts, banned and stylish jeans in order to show their wealth (money). The formation of groups and gangs is also very common. A large number of female and male sitting in shape of pair waste their important time in kidding. Mostly couples are seen in the universities they are sitting together and doing acts of mischief. The students forms gangs including male and female both spend their time in adventure like car racing, wheeling, bike racing etc.

In few universities smoking and drugs is frequently used by student. There are certain secret points in the universities where drugs can be sell or buy easily.

The most interesting part of university is its cafeteria. All variety of food from traditional to western is available there including breakfast and lunch. Does student come there for study or for eating? They even do breakfast there. The university cafeteria remains crowded from its opening time till its closing time.

Some students especially females that comes from Nobel and religious background found it difficult to cope with the environment of universities. They have to wear dress code that covers their whole body so they can be saved from evil eyes. The wearing of veils and gowns are commonly observed in universities. They have to ignore the sins and gester made by some disgusting boys. Eve teasing is a common thing some time they report it but mostly ignore it because they don’t want their name to come in any case.   They talk with great care like their every word has been judge.

As Pakistan is an Islamic country and its constitution clearly states no law can be against Qur’an and Sunnah then why are universities allowed to go ahead with co education?

Islam strictly forbids meeting, talking any relationship and other non Islamic tasks between NA-Mahram men (other than brother, father and husband) and women.

As prophet S.A.W used to say

“When a NA- Mahram man and woman are standing alone, the third one is devil (Ebleese) among them”

History proves that Islam has always been right. Islam forbids women from travelling with NA-Mahram man. She is allowed to go anywhere with her husband. Recently in 2000 60% of the women in Tokyo reported that they have been sexually assaulted by subway groper. To save women’s from sexual abuse in 2002 Japan has introduced separate train for women use only .Not only in Japan but also in India, Brazil, Egypt and Russia adopted the same system.

Similarly Islam forbids women from studying with men. It is not consider save for women .Women are given a lot of respect in Islam and Islam also give a lot of importance to education not only for men but also for women.

“Of all that a father can give his children, the best is their good education and training’ as well as’ And whosoever has cared for his three daughters or sisters and given them a good education and training, treating them, with kindness till Allah makes them stand on their own feet, by Allah’s grace he has earned himself a place in paradise”.

So, Islam is not against the education of women. Islam shows a lot of respect towards single sex education policy. As it has a lot of advantage. This has been proved by US Department of Education  in 2005.  A review entitled as Single-sex versus coeducational schooling: A systematic review. It contains 2221 studies .It has been published by the department. This review proves that single sex education is better than coeducation as it is stated in this review that

In general, most studies reported positive effects for SS schools on all-subject achievement tests,” and “The preponderance of studies in areas such as academic accomplishment (both concurrent and long term) and adaptation or socio emotional development (both concurrent and long term) yields results lending support to SS schooling”.

While in Australia, the Australian Council for Educational Research provides a report after six years of study which shows that 270,000 students in different academic subject the girls and boys from single sex education produce 15 to 22% better results than those students in coeducation. This report also states that they behave better than the student of coeducation.

While in Nigeria a college   Vivian Fowler Memorial College for Girls is famous for its educational polices.

This shows that Islam has been right about favoring single sex education. These problems have been indicated by Islam and certain laws have been made 1400 years ago. Now world also proves it through its experience. Now they are introducing separate trains for women’s, looking at the advantages of single sex school, introducing proper dress code that covers the body and many more things.

Now the question is that can we change the mind set of our societies? We have given so much freedom to women made her so much liberal that now she has become a source of sins for men. Can we change the mind set of those young girls that wear short dress as a symbol of fashion? Can we agree them that they are in danger by wearing these? Can we change our educational system to get better results?

May be we can do this with the passage of time. We can prove them that those laws that have been introduced 1400 years ago by Islam are best for any civilized society. But right now world is at the peak of ignorance.

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Women is a sex object?

Women in  society are nothing but a tool of sex enjoyment by men with the name of freedom and equality. They are exploited for sex display in all fields of life. But worst of all is that are used extensive for adultery and even incest. They are made involved in sex exploitation even before getting matured; they do not understand that they are being exploited sex oriented labor without being paid.

Adultery and Incest

Suppose you have a girl student in your class, and she usually intentionally or unintentionally wearing clothes which are exposing her breast, hips and thighs.  She is also getting free with you to be her boyfriend. Would you refuse that? Of course “No” Then after having friendship and no hesitation of touching, kissing etc  , could you control your sex emotions and then rape her, is that will be a sin?

Suppose you find a girl after sunset in lonely place walking in a dress which is exciting your sex emotions, would you not dare to catch her? If you say “No” then either environment is not so conducive, or you are liar. So if you rape her, is that will be a sin?

Suppose you have a sister who is already free to you and she is wearing at home, clothes, which are most of the time showing her sex curves without any hesitation, then you, being a young boy, can you control your sex emotions, (being almost of the same age, and may be already enjoying sex outside). If you say “Yes”, then either you are angel or you are liar. So if you rape her, is that will be a sin?

Suppose you have daughters, (whom no body at home ever seriously objected her wearing clothes which clearly exposing her sex parts) and daily sitting opposite to you (or in your lap) or lying at bed with full or partly view of her body, can you control your control your sex emotions whereas you are still sex sensitive.  If you say “Yes” then either you are coward or you are liar. Now if after having drinking, if you rape her for the first time, is that will be a sin?

Thus sin starts without concept of sin. Sex exploitation of women get started when she knows nothing about women rights, she is only made to know that she is born for sex enjoyment.

Sinful Behavior:

Sex enjoyment is no more treated as sin in west. Sex sin starts from the beginning without girl is actually matured. No body cares that a girl virginity is her precious pride which is the Amana (Arabic word, means husband right mortgage with parents). She having no lessons of modesty and knowing nothing that it is a great sin as per scriptures, starts getting sex taste at her immature age. She is not matured enough to think of wrongdoing or sinning. Having cleared from responsibility of being virgin, she then continuously starts enjoying sex in the hands of men. Allah forbids adultery and says in Quran

“and do not come near Zina ; indeed, it is an abomination and an evil way”

There are openly sexy emotional scenes on TV. Parents also see all this in present of their young children, which makes these children to believe that sex enjoyment is not a forbidden fruit before marriage. Even XXX rated movies are easily available to young teenagers, and then think how they can control their sex emotions with no strict restriction from elders (and sometimes elders also become part of it). Now when young boys and girls see all this, then why they won’t like to practice it. So adultery and incest are part of their life.

In western society you will hardly find a virgin girl by the age of 15 to 17. Some even lose their virginity even between 12 & 15. Parents are either themselves involved or they knew that their daughter is already practicing that….There is no concept that a boy will find a virgin girl when he is getting married. Girls are being continuously raped.

Women are being exposed to sex pleasure in hotels, clubs, movies. People are so addicted with women sex exposure that they even don’t mind seeing their sisters, mothers and wives nude by themselves at home, nude beaches, nude clubs and blue films.

Heard about the USA where children are educated in schools how to be a safe sex user, instead of how to save their modesty. Instead of educating and telling girls, importance of being virgin and modest, girls are encouraged how to be get sexually oppressed. They are never told that they must not get sexually involved before marriage, instead encouraged to start it as early as possible. They are not advised to wear modest clothes, instead showing no objection of their short and exposing clothes in mini skirt and bikinis. Casino, clubs, hotels, movies, beaches are available to let them show their sex figure in, transparent, topless and even without clothes. Prostitution is legalized as sex worker.

All this is done with the logo of “Freedom of Women”.

So sex relations are only meant for husband and wife and anybody crossing this limit is doing a great sin. So the girls raised in such environment can hardly be misused.

Conclusion

In west, it is labeled that women have got freedom and equal rights, but actually they are used merely as sex tool, and deprived of their rights which they will enjoy, if getting married. They angel-ere not respected for being virgin, but they think such girl as one whom nobody liked to be used. What a shame, a virgin girl is just an abuse of her personality.

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Use of Facebook in Pakistan and Islamic countries

Face book as a source of obscenity and vulgarity.

 

Face book is one of the biggest and massive social networking sites in the world. It contains roughly almost 800 million active users worldwide and totally more than a Billion users now. Face book has very vast audience then any single organization. Face book provides network for sharing personal information and links up all the news and updates. Face book has been ranked as the second most popular driver in web suffering.

In Pakistan a large amount of people use face book. It’s the most important mean of data sending and communication.

Everything has its own Pons and corns. Although Face book is very important mean of communication but it also has negative effects on the society as well. Face book is a source of obscenity and vulgarity in Pakistan. It has a negative impact on our youth, Sexual congress and condoms are very common among them, they talk and chat about them openly. Especially girls share their pictures which express or dominate their body.  These pictures are open invitation of sins. There are certain sites and pages that allow them free sexual talks and pictures and videos of pornography.

Our youth is almost addicted to these sites especially young girls use to visit these sites frequently they do not care about their surrounding just care for the message they are waiting for a reply. Four letter words and jester are liberally use among our youth. Face book is also a source of wrong friendship among our youngsters. This friend ship converts into attraction and lead them towards disasters

Our youth is very important for us they are the backbone of our nation.  As Quaid e Azaam used to say about them.

“Pakistan is proud her youth, particularly the students who are nation builders of tomorrow. They must fully equip themselves by discipline, education and training for the arduous task lying ahead on them”

Does our youth fulfill the dreams of our founders? Are they our nation builders? How can they be?

They spend their nights in chatting on face book and spend their days in sleeping.

Recently PTA told all mobile phone companies to end their low rates packages on late night calls. They claim that ‘youth vulgarity ‘has being increased by text messaging and excessive talking on cell phone. This is a very big step taken by PTA and I fully appreciate their decision. Although this decision has been challenges in court but still it’s a big step taken by PTA.

I am not against their low rate packages as this provides facility to public and also good for the business of mobile phone companies. I am against their night packages which are the root of all this vulgarity.

We have taken our beloved country on the name of Islam and it’s an Islamic country. Does Islam allow vulgarity? NO! Islam forbids it completely. Even The first order for purda (covering) starts from your  eyes (Shyness) . Then comes covering your rest of the body. It is consider as a sin in Islam if your eyes sees evil thing.  Your eyes must be pak (clean) from vulgar and porno sites.

Also in the Holy Quran “O ye who believe! Let not one people deride another people, haply they may be better than they, nor let one group of women deride other women, haply they may be better than they. And do not defame your people nor call one another by nick-names. It is an evil thing to be called by bad name after having believed; and those who repent not, such are the wrongdoers”

So being an Islamic country we should not allowed these Face book vulgarity causing sites. Every country has its own constitution and we should make certain law in our constitution that stops vulgarity causing sites.

Face book provides us an opportunity that we can report any thing that we want to remove. But when something is reported they review it and remove it if it violates its community standard. But they do not guarantee that such content will be removed, as it will has to only violet where they located according to their culture but not as our country’s culture as everyone has his / her own personal views or bound by the terms and conditions.

I am not in the favour of blocking face book in Pakistan as it is the biggest mean of communication. The government as already block “YouTube “.It has affected their business.   But we cannot wait for the face book to change its terms and conditions which are suitable for each country so they can control the privacy.

On individual level parents should have a proper check and balance on their children while they are using computers. PTA must take strong action to block these pages that cause vulgarity as they have done for night packages.

The Government should make efforts on international standard as it is not only the problem of Pakistan but all Islamic countries. Muslims have their own culture and religion which puts certain restriction on them.  These restrictions must be followed to promote their cultural harmony. So, the Government should meet the CEO of face book and ask him to make a center in Pakistan or in any Islamic country in order to remove so all those contents that violate Muslims values so reports will be sent from them will go directly there and they will take action to remove it.

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Valentine’s day

The month of February is celebrated around the world as soon as the calendar shows the date as 1st. Just about, every second person in the world associates its importance with love. Just like the way Paris has an eternal bond with the emotion of love same in the way February has, especially the 14th of this month. Yes, I am talking about the Valentine’s Day!

This Valentine Day is unethical and immoral by all means. Boys and girls across the globe irrespective of their religion especially Muslims celebrate this very day eagerly. Islam follows a strict Shariyah (rules and regulations related to relationships and boundaries among opposite gender). Boys give presents and flowers to their Namehram (restricted ladies), share their personal feelings and views on their likeness of their beloveds – the same Namehram. Such crowd behavior results in emergence of a profane society where relationships lose their high opinion. Al-Tirmidhi once narrated that Ibn Abbas رضي الله عنه reported that the Prophet صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم said: “He is not one of us who imitates other than us. Do not imitate the Jews or the Christians.

In Islam women are respected for their grace and hidden beauty whereas this Valentine’s Day persuades young and adult to indulge in an emotional and at times physical involvement which is Zina (unlawful sexual commitment). Saint Valentine was never in favor of spreading love; but was a wicked and corrupt Churchman who was involved in sex trafficking.

This Valentine Day is not the only non-Islamic celebration that is becoming part of our Islamic society. Halloween’s day is another new day that has gained popularity in our environs. People get themselves dressed in scary and dirty outfits, wear makeup that can make their face resembling to some zombie or vampire and enjoy getting their fellows afraid of their presence around. Such an out casting deed is strictly forbidden in Islam. But, we Muslins feel ourselves comfortable being part of such festivals.

Christmas celebrations as well are now getting common sight in Islamic countries. Though we believe in Hazrat Essa (Juses) and His teachings but deeming him as God’s son is ‘Shirk‘ i.e. making someone Allah’s partner – is strictly prohibited in Islam. And Christian’s in the real sense are ‘Mushrikun‘ i.e. those who commit shirk”. Celebrating Christmas and wishing others ‘Merry Christmas‘ – which literally means “God bore a son”– is one of the greatest sins a Muslim can ever perform. Nonetheless, we enjoy such festivals and have completely forgotten God’s own revelation stated in Surah Ikhlas:

“Say: He is Allah, the One and Only! Allah, the Eternal, Absolute; He begetteth not nor is He begotten. And there is none like unto Him” (Holy Qur’an 112:1-4)

Mother’s Day, Father’s Day, Teacher’s Day, Grandparent’s Day etc all are celebrated officially in almost every other Muslim state. Because of these non-Muslim festivities, people have limited their adoration and appreciation of their loved ones to be expressed only on these ‘special occasions‘. All these, and many other such non-Islamic celebrations have taken over the significance of our Islamic ceremonies.

We need to clean our society from these things, so one can live peaceful Islamic life, and die as Muslim.

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